Monday 17 December 2018

The "Jolly" Season

"Tis the season to be jolly".....well so the Christmas Carol tells us but it is far from jolly for so many people especially during this festive season and for so many different reasons. Sometimes I share threads of a personal nature on this blog but not always as it is not really appropriate. So this post is dedicated to those of you who might be feeling very "unjolly" as Christmas approaches.............
 This past year has been heart breaking and difficult at times as one of our own struggles personally. We thought it so very brave when they recently declared it publicly on facebook with these words......."Mental illness is a bitch. It can drain every gleam of light from you, and turn you into someone you never imagined you could be. Sorry to anyone I have neglected or disappointed this past year. I promise to use the next one to become the best mum and human being I can" As a society we are told we should be talking about it as it is a community responsibility but how helpless one feels when resources are over stretched and under funded. This article HERE is alarming and it is now thought that intentional self harm is currently the 13th cause of death in the world. Here in Australia over 8 people a day took their own lives just last year.....how can that be that 56 people a week succumb to this tragedy just in our country? We've even found ourselves asking how we can help and these past few days we found we needed some valuable 'time out' to think it all through. It did mean cancelling several social events including a special day today where two friends were taking me out for a mystery lunch date for my birthday.....but we are so grateful to those special friends for giving us this much needed space. So yesterday we turned off our mobile phones and hopped on a train destined for the city. We strolled for over two hours just watching and breathing in this 'jolly' season. The main shopping mall was dressed in trees and we might go back one night to see the lights.........

 A pop up display of local art work included hand printed paper and a large box covered in tiny folded stars made of recycled street directories........





 Amazing to see thriving gingko trees along one city footpath and an owl hidden in a hanging plant wall.......
 A link to our heritage hangs above.........

It was a dull and drizzly day and the skies didn't turn blue until travelling home late in the day. Not so sure how this tree will survive in this suspended box........

 We also popped into the Art Gallery to see the recently Refurbished Elder Wing to find one wall covered in William Morris wallpaper. There were no other pieces of the Morris collection to be seen but just the link to the past in the explanation........


 Downstairs in the Morris room the Adoration tapestry (that is on loan for the current National Gallery's "Love & Desire" exhibition), has been replaced with some May Morris designed embroideries.........

 The littlest people have been "jolly" and it was a delight to see little Maisie dancing in her very first concert........
 During the week little Wade enjoyed the Peter Rabbit activity runner......


And how I wish this photo hadn't blurred........a very special connection with his Poppa. I asked him to kiss Poppa so he puckered up without the blurring!.......
 So our family wish you and yours a much loved week leading up to 'jolly' Christmas. I will finish with this lovely image sent to me by Patricia of her beautiful "My Renaissance" quilt........I adore her version with the light background.....just beautiful - thankyou Patricia x

5 comments:

  1. A very true post Michele, as there are many who struggle with the "jolly" season. Thinking of you all. xxx Lovely photos of your city "get-away".

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  2. I think it looks like you and Larry had a wonderful get away day and you probably really needed it. Most times I enjoy the holiday season but I do not always - sometimes I just find it tiring. I know some of the problems you all have been going through this past year and it has been hard I'm sure - I hope all well be better in the new year - or at least an improvement

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  3. Merry Christmas Michele, I hope 2019 brings you and your family good health, self acceptance and understanding. Life is a complex journey and our inner struggles are part of that, but one that is difficult to share. Your love and devotion to your family are a credit to you.

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  4. It is this way throughout the world. We lost a friend due to mental illness in April. So glad a member of your family is getting better. You continue in our prayers. Wade is such a joy. Glad you had some quiet time. Merry Christmas and God's Blessings in the coming New Year.

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  5. Your words reflect the feelings of many especially at Christams, but we must try and celebrate what we are grateful for and enjoy the love of our family and friends. I will be thinking of you and know that having beautiful little grandchildren in your life will give so much happiness and bring joy to you.
    Merry Christmas and may the new year bring happiness to you and your family.
    Love from Jean 😍😍🌲🌲

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